To Love and Cherish

How important for people to respect and honor one another, especially in a marriage!! All the ladies out there: Be sure to find a partner who truly loves you, honors and respect you for who you are. And make sure you treat him likewise too k.
This sentiment was reinforced loudly yesterday:
Was on a bus to Bugis and it was raining heavily. This couple with 2 boys boarded the bus. The man was the 1st to board the bus and he immediately walked to the rear of the bus for a seat. The 2 boys followed after but came back to the front to get seats and were happily munching on a bag of chips. And poor mum was holding 2 large unbrellas and was trying to dig for coins in her bag. After about 1-2 mins, the lady signalled to her husband sitting at the rear to come forward to help her with the coins.. but he didn't budge for like another 1 min or so. Finally, he decided to move his golden butt and went forward, but instead of helping her with the coins or the umbrellas, he simply pushed her quite roughly n was scolding her to use her EZ link card instead. And with that, he turned back and scolded her for being so blur and stuff- the whole bus can hear him lor! The lady looked real hurt and disappointed and angry. Obviously there was something wrong with her card la!! SO in any case, she finally managed to search for coins and got a seat. About 2 bus stops later, there was an empty 2 seater, and the irritating guy went to push her real roughly again to ask her to sit with him. She simply glared at him and ignored him! I was cheering on the inside, way to go, dun give in to him!!! When they finally alighted from the bus, I could hear him shouting at the woman before the bus door closed and moved off. What a jerk i was thinking!! I was fuming rather madly for the lady la.

Anyway, this incident serves as a good reminder on my part to cherish, love and respect all the ones whom I love! You can't claim that you love someone if your actions dun tally with your words. Never take your love ones for granted ya.