Tuesday, May 22, 2012

10th Jan 2012: Happy Birthday to me and our little Moklet!

It's been almost a year and where did it go to? Was reading one of my fav blogs and the blogger mentioned about the importance of blogging. To be able to document very precious moments and challenges in life so we can remember them in days, months and years down the road.
I Agree! ... But! (haha.. there's always a BUT hiding somewhere...that's life!)
There are so many precious little memories that I need to jot down and reflect upon yet, time seems so limited.  Everyday, I'm vying with time to have more time (am i making sense?)....and every segment of my life is vying for a piece of me.

2012 marks the year I enter into this world of no return: Motherhood! My dear boy decided to be the best present I can ever receive by choosing to be born on my birthday.. 10th January 2012! Many commented that I can say 'tata' to my birthday celebrations since all attention and energy will be placed on his partieS.. oh well... guess I'm fine with it. (Maybe it can make me forget that I'm turning older???? ;) 

Thought I should document down my 1st birth story....  a little long as it was indeed a looong wait!!

Birth story: 

My gynae decided to induce me on 9th Jan as the water level was rather low and bb E was getting a little too big. Estimate size by her was ard 3.5kg. I began feeling irregular contractions at around evening time. It was so uncomfortable that I skipped dinner that evening [BIG mistake!]. Admitted at 8pm and checked into room 502(I think). Nurse checked me again and was not good so had to be induced a 2nd time. Contractions were ongoing but was informed that I would only be wheeled into the labour ward at 6am the next morning! It was the longest night ever! No posture was comfortable enough... I was practically counting down by the minutes!

6am: AHHH... my long awaited delivery room! I must say that the midwives in Glen E are all really pro and encouraging. I had a change of 3 shifts (tts how long i spent in the delivery room!) of midwives and they were all really sweet.... esp the last one (forgot her name!) whom aided in the actual delivery.

Soon after, I was given the epidural. The process of administering it was rather scary though, especially when everyone was cautioning you not to move AT ALL ... but it turned out pretty ok. There was a portion that felt like electricity going through your body. Other then that, not much pain that I can remember-much better than the contractions! I had dilated 3-4cm by then and midwife shared that my contractions were fluctuating and there were a couple of highs.

Was finally able to get some rest after the epidural took effect but i puked twice due to the epidural. Miserable since I didn;t had much since last dinner. Was mainly acid.
Gynae came in soon after at around 7ish am, did some checks and broke my water bag to quicken the process as it was taking wayyyy toooo slloooowwww! After that was ZZZZZzzzzz all the way... no lunch... no tea break! Mok totally enjoyed his breakfast... lunch prepared by the hospital though and was raving to me all about his meals -_-.

12pm: Gynae did a check and baby's head is still rather high up in my cervix... and dilation was at around 5 i think. She also mentioned that baby's head might be a little too big for me. Told me to rest as much as poss and to push real hard later.
I was like "Big head?! Too big for me?! Will I end up having a C-section?!!" Prayed and then went on to lala-land again!

2pm: Mok checked the contraction meter and my contractions were getting real high! Thank God for epidural for I felt nothing... Had a sudden intense craving for a ice cold coke. Having not drank water for the past 8 hours is killing me! I was perpetually hallucinating of the glass of icy coke in my mind.

Somewhere during the wait-not too sure what time... feeling a little groggy from the naps and long wait. Mok was gaming with his Mac. Suddenly... a loud, sharp scream pierced the tranquility of delivery ward! It was almost as if someone was stabbed and about to die! Then it went all silent again. we looked at each other in shock... then a couple of seconds later.. another sharp shriek followed by an infant's cries. It dawned on me that the woman had just delivered without epidural! OUCH!! Immediately went on to check my epidural drip to ensure that all is in place!!

3pm: My dearest gynae came in to check again... good news! I should be able to deliver in about an hour's time! Hurray! Can finally see my moklet and also be ridden of the huge weight! She reminded me once again to push hard for her later!

345pm: I had a sudden urge to visit the loo (big business)! Highlighted to the midwife that I needed to poo. She did a check and announced that I was ready to push! Baby is coming!!

For the next 1 hour.. I pushed like never before! So hard that I felt as if the veins around my forehead were going to burst. Mok was very encouraging and was shouting 'Push' throughout the entire time i was pushing and even strategize with me on the strength and duration of each push! Gynae finally came in after eternity had passed and she brought along with her another midwife and the 2 sweetest lady started to pressed my belly each time my contraction arrived. Everyone in the room was shouting 'PUSH'... What a scene!

Prayed desperately for strength to carry on pushing as i had absolutely no more strength ...

5pm: Finally at around 5pm, 10th Jan 2012... moklet was born, with the aid of vacuum.

Gynae was super 'excited' that he was a 4kg baby! So was the entire ward of nurses! Apparently he is biggest of the lot in the nursery room. We were famous. Every time there was a change in shift, the new nurse coming in would talk abt my 4 KG baby, my VERY encouraging husband and how Awesome I am to have delivered him naturally!

Haha... Yeah!!! Still can't believe I delivered a 4KG baby!!!


Here's the famous little one! Our precious Elijah Mok! Weight:4.03kg Height: 55cm!!




Hey there, I'm the famous 4kg handsome dude!! Cool yea!! 

Oh yah! One more part.. when gynae was stitching me up post delivery, somehow I could feel the needle pricking me! Another dose of LA had to be administered which resulted in another round of puking. *miserable..
Both Mok and I had sore throat after my delivery. Mine as a result of the stomach acid and his, because of the 1 hour long shouting! My hubby is voted the best cheerleader- in the delivery ward! ;)


 
  

Monday, July 11, 2011

Welcome back......My Life!!!

I can sense life seeping back into me as I hit the 13th week mark! Life that smells so good, that rings freedom... life that signals the coming back of Pat Chiang!

Yes! On Fri, I felt better and decided to take the challenge of heading down to the coffeeshop to have my 1st proper dinner in like almost 2 months! The 咸菜豆腐汤 was good! Went light on the carbs and donated most of the seafood and meat to Mok but, the soup was great!

On Sat, I was able to travel down to cell without having to deal with the utter sense of misery. Managed to eat a bit of economic rice... and I thoroughly enjoyed cell time! Mok was also able to stay back and enjoy a round of card games with the guys, instead of having to rush me home.

On Sun, I was able to indulge in wanton mee for lunch... it was heavenly! And the best part of it all! I could rejoin my Sun hangout gang for a cuppa of bubble tea.... and when we tapaoed dinner, I found myself joining them at the dinner table. No more hiding in one corner, trying to run away from the food smell! Had some soup for dinner yesterday.
The bestest part of this awesome weekend... no puking... at all!! Woohoooo......

The social part of my life is back!!! I AM SOOOOOOO HAPPPPPPPY! There is still some discomfort here and there but nothing to worry about.

Goodbye 1st tri..... I will so not miss u!

Thursday, June 30, 2011

1st post for 2011!!!

Just realized that I haven't had any blog post for the yr 2011!! Wow... and June 2011 is already coming to an end.
The 1st quarter of 2011, in my faintest memory was a real busy quarter, though I really can't remember what I was busy with.. hmmm... anycase ....
2nd quarter of 2011 is a season of real mixed feelings:

April 2011:
Fell really ill. Mok mentioned that he has never seen me so ill before. Had fever, followed by a real bad throat infection. Took a course of anti-biotics, throat was restored...which only lasted over the weekend. Infection came back soon after and this time round, it viciously attacked my precious vocal chords! I lost my voice for like 2-3 weeks! Was even called "Patrick" due to the my low 'sexy' voice. It was madness! For a better gauge of the severity: I have yet to fully regain my voice (can't sing to my usual capacity yet and it is IRRITATING me BIG TIME!!) Really thought me to treasure all I have and not to take His healing and health for granted!

May 2011:
The NEW month!!!
We welcomed 3 NEW members into our family in the month of May!!!
1) Our new car!! (Quite sad to part with our Jazzy actually. You have served us well Jazzy and we have prayed that you will land into good hands!)
2) Keys to our new house!! FINALLY after almost 3 years of waiting! We got our keys to the place that we can truly call HOME!
3) And surely the most impt member! We found out that our family of 2 is gonna expand to a family of 3!!!! =)

However, new stuff also meant lotsa transitions... thus,

June 2011:
The month of handling the multiple transitions and emotions....
Month that marks the start of reno.... and the start of the frightening ATTACK of the morning sickness, which was more of a FULL day sickness. Which then evolved into a evening sickness after a couple of weeks. Which was 'good' as that made me more functional in the day, but totally useless once the clock strike 530pm!! Not forgetting the ultra heightened sense of smell which made everything nice, bad!
Looking back... June was a tough time for the family... but thank God for a strong and supportive husband who was the Superman handling most of the reno stuff.

I survived June 2011! Still having some form of evening sickness and the heightened sense of smell... but I am looking forward to my 1st proper dinner soon! May 1st tri faster go away!

So many times, in the past 1-2 months, I asked myself, "What's the point? Why did I put myself in this plight!... why must pregnancy be so long and dreary!!...etc"
But God is good and He never fails to put things into perspective.
Was having a bath 1 day, and was just recalling a conversation that I had with Mok some time back about how different our life will be in future. Everything's gonna revolve around the kiddo. At that instance, I felt Him telling me about the journey that He is gonna take us through as a family. That kiddo will teach us more about giving, sacrificial love and that life is not just about caring for our own selves. Most exciting was, He encouraged that we will be able to understand the Father's heart and love even more as we become parents.

It is amazing how a simple assurance from my Father just helped to put things into perspective-it is worthwhile!!! I will hang in there!!!!

Saturday, November 13, 2010

I OFFICIALLY HAVE A 大嫂!!

And yes, my one and only kor is finally married!!! And I am so elated and truly glad for him coz I really think he has gotten himself a wonderful wife, aka, my 大嫂!
I am so proud of my bro as they have gone through quite a bit of stressful period during the wedding preparation, yet I could see God using this period as a growing opportunity for him too. Through it all, they were able to support each other and, I believe grow stronger in their love and bond for each other.

Their wedding was also a stressful period for me as I HAD TO HAVE MY EXAMS ON THEIR WEDDING DAY-30TH OCT 2010!!! It definitely didn't help at all that the lecturer was probably the worst ever lecturer that I have ever encounter and will encounter. In short, she SUCKS!! (Alright, this is supposed to be a joyous and happy blog entry...-_-)
Anyhow... I had to, very reluctantly pull myself away in the midst of the wedding service... but heard that all went on really well! And I think I should be able to pass my paper... so....

CONGRATULATIONS KOR! Often feels like I am the elder sister as you know, I am so much more responsible and wise yah... (heee) but I have seen so much growth in you through the past few years. Never failed to enjoy and appreciate those precious and rare moments when we chatted and, you have always been watching over me in your quiet manner. Thank you KOR KOR!! You are truly a grown man now and I am so proud of you... Enjoy your honeymoon in Japan and remember me in your shopping sprees kk... love ya lots!!! =)

Love you kor! U r the best kor... cos u r the only kor I have! hohoho =p
Our 1st official and complete 全家副!
Here comes My pretty Da-sao!
Think my bro was rather nervous when saying the vows but he did it victoriously anyway!
It is confirmed! They are officially MR & MRS DEREK CHIANG!! Hurray!!!
Making their 2nd grand entrance for the evening.. so kawaii!
My bro trying his best to pop the champagne!
My parents! Ain't they stunning!!!!
My in-laws! Ain't they sweet...
全家副!
The thorn among the roses (1) -- older version =p

The thorn among the roses (2)

My wonderful parents. Can you see the glow on their faces!!

Just us!!! Me and my dar =p

Oh yah, the make-up artist persuaded me to take a risk and try out a different hairdo and I am so glad I took up the challenge! Took a while to get used to it and I grew to love it eventually... =)