Abin 方炯镔 - Huai Ren 坏人

A nice song that I heard Charles Wong singing at the Cnai HK cafe where we had dinner after our weekly jog just this week. Sad song, reaches out to my emo side... the MV is really nice and Linda looks real good in there.

Huai Ren 坏人
by: Abin 方炯镔

那 一扇车门
Na yi shan che men

关出 我们的裂痕
Guan chu wo men de lie hen

一声就震断了回头的路程
Yi sheng jiu zhen duan le hui tou de lu cheng


爱 无法均分
Ai wu fa jun fen

以后 就留给你们
Yi hou jiu liu gei ni men

也许用伤害结束 爱才更动人
Ye xu yong shang hai jie shu, ai cai geng dong ren


* 容忍的人其实并不笨
*Rong ren de ren qi shi bing bu ben

只是宁可对自己残忍
Zhi shi ning ge dui zi ji can ren

既然爱不能恒温
Ji ren ai bu neng heng wen

祝福就给你下一个人
Zhu fu jiu gei ni xia yi ge ren

** 你是好人 也是个坏人
** Ni shi hao ren, ye shi ge huai ren

对我坦承 只为了朝他狂奔
Dui wo tan cheng, zhi wei le chao ta kuang ben

不能放任 所以放了
Bu neng fang ren, suo yi fang le

这点痛我还能忍
Zhe dian tong wo hai neng ren

我是好人 也是个坏人
Wo shi hao ren ye shi ge huai ren

分得够狠 你才有借口转身
Fen de gou hen, ni cai you jie kou zhuan shen

宁愿爱 一点不剩
Ning yuan ai yi dian bu sheng

也不忍 看恋人爱成路人
Ye bu ren, kan lian ren ai cheng lu ren


Repeat *,**

三个人从不对等
San ge ren cong bu dui deng

总有个人必须牺牲
Zong you ge ren bi xu xi sheng

那永恒 就等他带你完成
Na yong heng, jiu deng ta dai ni wan cheng

Repeat **

宁愿爱 一点不剩
Ning yuan ai yi dian bu sheng

也不忍 看恋人爱成路人
Ye bu ren, kan lian ren ai cheng lu ren

Home is the sweetest!!

Mok is attending a course in Shanghai and would be away for 8 days!! This is by far the longest time he'll be away since marriage. Time seems to pass by so slowly as I'm counting down to Monday when he'll be back!!!

In the mean time, I (and our 2 tortoises, xiao wu and xiao gui) have temporarily shifted back to my parent's place for these 8 days and coming home brought back many sweet memories and it seriously feels great to be home!

Being back made me realize how much I missed the familiar warm touch of my home, the jogs with my parents, chats with my bro, home-cooked food by my mum and being pampered by them all. =p

Thank you dad and mum for always making home such a great place to come back to. Love u all!!

And yes.. Sat's breakfast menus was Toasted bread with honey baked ham and hash brown! Didn't make scrambled eggs as Mok was still coughing and was told to abstain from eggs! So breakfast became easier for me too... =) Didn't take any pictures though as the breakfast was gone real quick!

... now, gotta plan my next breakfast menu!!

Inspired & Determined!

Have been seeing lots of yummy delicious looking breakfast menus recently and I'm really inspired to cook up nice breakfast spreads over the upcoming weekends!! Anyway, isn't it great to be able to wake up on a sat morning and treat yourself to a hearty and yummy breakfast! Alright, so what would i start with this sat....

a) English breakfast (scrambled eggs, ham, tuna with toasted bread)

Inspiration: the yummy breakfast prepared by my bff... check out calebie's hungry face!

or

b) traditional pancakes with maple syrup???!!

Inspiration: Karen Cheng's blog entry (Yummalicious!)

GOODBYE 2009 & WELCOME 2010!!

It is time to say goodbye to the year 2009!!

It was indeed an eventful year for me.

2009: a year of getting accustomed to married life- which has been fun and simply awesome!!; transited to new workplace; adapted to new house at serangoon north; and did lots of traveling - we traveled to 5 different places (Aust, Bkk, Phuket, HK and Bintan) within 09!! =)

Thank God that though it was a tough economic and financial year, His blessings and providence has brought us to green pastures.

We had lots of celebrations and gathering to mark off the end of 2009, and the most important event had to be our 1 YEAR ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATION!! Happy 1 year to both of us!!!

Thank God for seeing us through a year and of course for the many more years to come. It only seemed like a few months back that we were preparing for our big day, yet it also seems like we have been married for much longer than a year. Marriage life is all about giving. And though it might seem like many sacrifices and changes need to be made as 2 different individuals with 2 totally different background and past experiences come together, giving is made easier when the relationship is constantly being watered with love and thoughtfulness. To give without expecting to receive, yet because both parties adopt the same mentality, so often and not, both parties receive much too! Really would like to thank Mok for all the patience, sacrifices, love and fun that he has brought into my life... you are simply awesome Mr Mok! =) Looking forward to the journey ahead of us.

And thanks to Mok's secret planning, we managed to spend our 1 year anniversary at Bintan Resort!! It was my first trip to Bintan, and the conclusion is, there is really nothing much to do there. Haha, but this worked for us as we had lots of time to recuperate and sleep; did a mini family retreat for 2010 plans and we watched lotsa downloaded anime!=p

Think all singaporeans should have such a trip at least once a year, where we are forced to slow down and just chill out and be refreshed. Splendid!

End of 2009 highlights:

1st year anniversary at Bintan Resort:

Waiting to board our ferry

Rm 2144, our cozy abode for the 3 days

Bliss & happiness =)

Mok: Feeling carefree and energize when he is at the beach as always

Tenderloin Steak for the guy & Grilled Stuffed Chicken with Aparagus for the lady..

(Portion was a little too small tho... Mok went back and ate a cup noodles -_-)

Mok deep in thought as we had our retreat time at the beach

Time to go home!! =(

The Tham farewell

Though I miss them dearly, but I believe the upcoming year would be a great experience for them as a family. Gab, Jia you with your studies! And Wen, enjoy your 1 year of Tai Tai-hood! Calebie, don't forget us okk... will see you real soon!!!

Can't wait to see them in U.S in June 2010!!! Hurray, I'm going to the U.S!!!

The Tham Family

Calebie: Can uncle KH pray faster so I can taste the yummy-looking cake? Tiramisu.. my fav!!

The Dec Birthday boys, Gab & Ian

The 3 musketeers: Love Ranen's sitting posture, Calebie's cheeky smile & Ethan's innocent look

X'mas party at Simply DJ's hse

hohoho... Merry X,mas!!

Karis's first X'mas with us!! Check out her kawaii outfit

The Woo Family

The Chin family(1)- Next yr we'll have Chin family(2) with baby Giselle =)

Kylene has grown to a pretty little gal, full of expressions

The mums and their babies

YX & Kylene

Mint & Karis Yun & Dax

Playmates!!

31st Dec 09 gathering at Shin's place

Dinner at Shin's went great and it was a good time of catching up with friends, especially for Mok. Realised I failed to take any pictures with the group as my sole focus was on our VIP for the night... Scottie!! He is superly handsome, and is such a responsive and fun baby... simply adorable!

Another highlight of the night was this boardgame that Shawn introduced to us, called Scotland Yard. It is a detective and murderer game. Game was really engaging and we played till 3am! Well done folks that we managed to tong till 3am... considered quite a feat nowadays!!

... so with this, it's a Happy 2010 to all!!!

Scott taking his power nap

The handsome boy is awake!!

Better fill his stomach b4 playing as a hungry boy is a angry one..